The longer you have been planning your wedding, the more you have dealt with the juggle between what you want and what you actually need. There are so many options and features when it comes to a wedding, how do you decide what to prioritize for your budget? Here are a few tips for things you should keep as well as things you may want to ditch.
Programs – SAVE
Realistically, guests don’t need a program to know what happens – there’s no intermission and if they are at your wedding, they know your name. Not to mention, ceremonies always end with ‘I do’! Other than the five aunts, grandparents, and close family friends who have watched you grow up, not many people will care to have a program as a keepsake. If you feel a program is a must-have, keep it simple and only print enough for the first 3 rows on each side. The most important people who care to have a program tend to have reserved seats closer to the front. To ensure they each get one, have your house party or coordinator place them on each chair in those special rows. If you have any leftovers, leave them by the sign-in book for others to grab.
Specialty Linens – SPLURGE & SAVE
It might sound confusing, but it’s simple – splurge on your important tables and keep the others basic. Your sweetheart/head table, cake, gift, and welcome tables get the most attention, so it makes sense to deck those out! Spare yourself from going overboard – no one will have eyes on random guest table #11, it can have a basic linen without hurting your wallet or anyone’s feelings.
Cocktail Hour Bites – SPLURGE
I may be biased, but I feel offering food is never a waste, especially after your guests have just sat through your ceremony. Depending on what time dinner begins, some of your guests may get a bit cranky waiting for the main meal. Cocktail hour is designed to keep your guests happy and entertained while you are taking photos. Food is the easiest way to do this, and it doesn’t break the bank! Passed hors d’oeuvres can be ordered per person or per dozen, which makes them more flexible for your budget.
Top Shelf Bar – SAVE
I see a lot of couples who feel pressured to offer nothing but the best for their guests, but realistically, guests are happy to spend the day with you! Offering a well or call level bar is nothing to be ashamed of, after all, an open bar is an open bar! As long as guests don’t have to pull out their wallets, they won’t care what you are serving. Some wedding budgets don’t have room to host open bar for more than 2 hours (or any drinks at all) and that’s okay too! Don’t stress about it. If you are worried about impressing a guest based off of what you have paid for them to enjoy, maybe they aren’t the right guest to keep on the list. Offer whatever works for your budget and know that your guests will have a great time.
For most couples, maintaining your budget is the most stressful part of the wedding planning process. I hope these tips help you to better prioritize where your wedding budget is going. In the end, this day is all about you and your new spouse celebrating your love. Whether you spend top dollar on every aspect of your event or go the money saving route for everything you can, your guest will just be happy to be able to share the wonderful memories to come with you! You’ll be surprised at how well some money saving tips can ease the stress on your budget and your mind. Happy wedding planning!